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Thanks to all who celebrated with us at I HOPE YOU DANCE 2009. Once again it was an amazing event thanks to wonderful family and friends.  Please watch the website for information for next year.


                2009 FUNDRAISER
                   INFORMATION 

                           August 7, 2009

             
  Once again we honored the memory of our daughter, sister, granddaughter, Goddaughter, niece, cousin and friend, Shayna Stefanik. Shayna was the daughter of John and Cyndie Stefanik, formerly of Pittsburgh and now of Erie. On August 20, 2004, Shayna was tragically killed in a car accident traveling from Pittsburgh to Erie. Shayna was only 18 years old but her short life impacted countless people in many positive ways. She was a dancer and the family clown who loved to make her family and friends laugh. Shayna continues to be missed by all who knew her. Shayna always lived life to the fullest even on her last day when she danced in the sand of Presque Isle with friends for pictures to display on a dance studio billboard and then traveled to the South Side of Pittsburgh to show friends the beautiful house her parents and family remodeled for her upcoming years in the dance program at Point Park College. 

When tragedy struck, it was imperative to us to find a meaningful way to continue to share Shayna's spirit. 

For the last 5 years we have held successful annual fundraising dances in Shayna's honor with the theme being I HOPE YOU DANCE. We  laugh and dance to her song 'BUILD ME UP BUTTERCUP"  and always end up crying to the theme song "I HOPE YOU DANCE".  As a special moment dedicated to Shayna, we send her personal messages by way of beautiful white balloons and the outpouring of sentiment at that time can never be forgotten. This year we also sent special messages to all those we lost by way of beautiful pink balloons. The sight of all those balloons rising at the same time will always remain unforgettable. I guess the best way to describe the evening is to say "YOU JUST HAVE TO BE THERE!" Thanks to the generosity of so many awesome people an annual scholarship has been established in memory of Shayna. Every year since May of 2006, the family has presented the Shayna Stefanik Memorial Scholarship to deserving Mercyhurst dance students. 

Shayna had a passion for dance and with this in mind we sponsor our annual fundraising dances in her honor with the theme remaining as always, I HOPE YOU DANCE.   Once again in the only way we know how, we will honor Shayna by plain old having fun and dancing until we couldn't dance anymore. 

Please watch the website for information for next years event. We would love to see you there. 

Shayna's family and friends all know she will always be in our hearts and dancing with God in heaven.




WE LOVE YOU SHAYNA!













 

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Family Tree
Tributes and Condolences
I Hope You Dance 2009   / Aunt Mary Kay (Aunt and Godmother )
Well Shayna we did it. Another successful night in your honor. We had some amazing moments. We let the white balloons fly for you as always but this year your mom suggested we also send a message to all those that we lost. So this year we let pink ba...  Continue >>
Dance tribute   / Aunt Mary Kay (Godmother)
Well, Shayna, you should be so proud of Cortney and all your friends. They honored you in the only way we all know how-they danced. They didn't just dance for you, I think in their own way that night they all felt like they were dancing with you. Cor...  Continue >>
We remember   / Mom
Shayna and her friends, Although I write this to you I want to include all your friends. Look at how you impacted Anthony's life and he dedicates his final dance to you. Amazing. This year Spotlight Studio has dedicated not only your song, but h...  Continue >>
Dance  / Anthony Paparelli (Best Friend/Roommate )
Hey Girl ~ I miss you. I've been thinking about you an awful lot lately. I am graduating on Saturday from Point Park and its still so weird without you here. You'd be proud of me though - I got my B.F.A. and have honors haha. For my last piece ...  Continue >>
Valentines Day   / Mom
Hi Shay,

I'm thinking of you so much more today.  We went to see CATS tonight and so many of the young dancers reminded me of you.  Zack and Henry sent me an email that said...If love could have saved you, you would have lived fo...  Continue >>
On Valentine's Day...  / Clare Loveland (Friend :) )    Read >>
Merry Christmas  / Mom     Read >>
Merry Christmas  / Aunt Mary Kay (aunt)    Read >>
I'm so very sorry for your loss  / Sarah Waldrop ((very) Old Friend )    Read >>
Happy Birthday  / Marissa Szumigale (BFF)    Read >>
Happy Birthday  / Aunt Mary Kay (Aunt and buddy )    Read >>
Race for the Cure!!  / Clare Loveland (Friend)    Read >>
Christmas / Aunt Mary Kay (aunt/buddy)    Read >>
sad news  / Aunt MaryKay (aunt)    Read >>
thank you Shayna  / Aunt Mary Kay (Aunt and buddy )    Read >>
More tributes and condolences...
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